What's that thing sucking on my leg?? Leeches

I guess each family has their own issues in terms of their immediate relative & extended family

i have a relative where all the family are just plain leech. Since they are from outstation, when they come to our hse to stay, not even once did they offer to buy my parents dinner. If they come for 3 days, dad has to entertain and pay for them. Since my aunt is my mom’s younger sis, I think she must think that my mom should be taking care of her.

They have2 daughters. One is married in Australia with a guy that does his own business.

The younger sis is going out with a lawyer and is rich. I give her the benefit of doubt that maybe she is really in love with him or maybe his moolah. But I seriously believe that she’s a parasite. The man has been divorced twice and if it’s not for the money do you think she will stick like a glue to him? This cousin of mine has now turned all high & mighty. Imagined this, she was my sis’s ji mui for her wedding. After the games there is an angpow which is meant for all the ji muis. My sis’s friend ask me how much was it and I replied her I didn’t know and since my cousin was beside me, I just told her nicely “Later remember to distribute the money,”. And she replied me “You think i’m not going to give you and keep the money?”. Later during the wedding dinner, she came and ask me who else were the ji muis. I just told her I don’t know. I couldn’t be bothered. What the heck does she want to hold it for until now?

Then the 2nd incident happen was during a dinner with her sis since she is leaving for Aust after the wedding. While chit chatting I ask her sis would she come back again if I were to hold my wedding next yr…and this ‘All high cousin answered “ Oh, so that you can ask her daughter to be your flowergirl?” Hello, I didn’t think of that. Anyway, when it’s your turn to get married next time, dun ask me for my help.

So here is a tribute to the parasites

what goes around comes around

So much have been happening btwn these 2 weeks.

A col who has been bullied by her boss and she is leaving the co. Poor her. She have been silently receiving all the bulls from her boss. Her boss can be nasty. Her boss will not even look at the job and just push everything to her and make her complete all job first. All datelines are tight and of course the poor gal can’t finish her job. And when she told her boss, she just replied that she (my col) should manage her time better.

The best part is when my col said that the rest of them are not doing it the same way as her. Her boss replied that “Don’t compare me with the rest. I manage it differently”. Yea…differently as in everything will let my col do first. And if my col ask her if she’s wasn’t sure on how to get the info, the boss will send her running everyway to look for info…and to the extent of sending her to be ‘spy’. Her boss will send her to ask us what we do and then make sure that her work will be better than us……….

Both of them have discuss things over to settle the problem but the boss won’t budge and keep insisting that she manage it diiferently. At the end, they just end up arguing. Hence, my col decided to tender her resignation.

Moreover, her boss went and complain to her boss & HR saying that my col is inadequate and etc…the balls she has

The best part is this boss is from a co. upstairs and apparently the people celebrated when she left the co.

I was called in by HR so that they are able to listen to a 3rd party observation.


And I don’t have to say who interviewed her bcos birds of the same kind flock together…who else but the bloody gwai

So, don’t judge a book by its cover….and wish that those deserving ppl get their karma

Bosses

10 signs that you have a bad boss & a bad leader

1. give you nasty emails
2. don’t give you clear instructions so that you need to re-do and re-do your work
3. harping on your mistakes no matter how small it is , again and again
4. cover her/his own asses but leave your ass open
5. give you empty promises so that you feel good for an hr and then only realize that she/he is a f@#$king liar. Liar liar pants on fire
6. give you loads and loads of work while she/he just sit at her office and shake her leg
7. Need you to deliver the timelines even when you are sick in bed
8. Call you every 10 minutes to tell you that there is something is wrong/missing in your work until you have telephobia….(I made this up but it suppose to be phone phobia)
9. changes his mind every other day on her/his brief to you
10. Thinks that you need 5 yrs in the same position no matter how good you are before you can move up

Warning Label
if you have a gwailo boss, don’t ever, ever trust his/ words . take it only on surface value